Stop the Jumping Jack: How to Tame Your Dog’s Over-the-Top Greetings

We all know the scenario. Your dog spots a visitor, and before anyone can say “down, boy,” your furry friend has launched into the air like a pogo stick with a tail. It’s adorable to you, sure, but not everyone enjoys being greeted with 40 pounds of enthusiastic, slobbery fluff. So why does your dog do this, and more importantly, how can you stop it before Aunt Sally gets sent flying next time she visits? Let’s break it down. 

Why Is My Dog Acting Like a Kangaroo? 

Jumping is your dog’s way of saying, “HEY, FRIEND! I’M SO HAPPY YOU’RE HERE!” It’s an attention-seeking behaviour, and it usually starts when they’re puppies. We tend to unintentionally reinforce it by laughing or giving them attention. Even negative reactions, like pushing them away, can be rewarding to a dog because it’s still interaction. In your dog’s mind, any response means, “Mission accomplished, I’ve been noticed!” 

How to Keep All Four Paws on the Ground 

Good news: with patience and consistency, you can teach your dog that polite, four-on-the-floor greetings get rewarded, while spring-loaded antics don’t. Here’s how: 

1. Ignore the Jumping 

It’s hard, I know. Your dog looks at you with those big, excited eyes, and you just want to react. But when your dog jumps, turn your back, cross your arms, and avoid eye contact. No touching, no talking, no acknowledging. Wait until they’re calm and have all four paws on the ground. The second they do? Boom! Shower them with praise and treats. 

2. Teach an Alternative Greeting 

Give your dog a replacement behaviour. One of the most effective ones is to teach them to sit when they greet people. This way, sitting becomes their new way of saying, “Hello!” Practise this in a low-distraction area first, and make sure to reward them every time they sit instead of jump. 

3. Practice Makes Perfect (With Friends and Family) 

Now it’s time to up the ante. Invite some friends over to help you train. Tell your guests to ignore your dog if they jump and only pay attention when your pup is calm or sitting. Consistency is key here — every single person needs to follow the same plan. 

4. Keep Your Dog on a Leash 

During Training If you’re worried about surprise visitors, keep your dog on a leash when the doorbell rings. This gives you more control and prevents them from practicing their Olympic high jump routine. Once they’re calm, you can gradually give them more freedom. 

5. Reward Good Behaviour Like It’s a Big Deal 

Dogs thrive on rewards. If they greet someone politely, make sure they know how proud you are. Use treats, affection, and your most excited “good dog!” voice. They’ll learn that staying calm gets them what they want: love and attention. 

6. Exercise Your Dog Before Guests Arrive 

Sometimes, the best way to tame a bouncy pup is to tire them out beforehand. A good walk or a game of fetch before guests come over can help burn off that excess energy, making it easier for them to focus and stay calm. 

Be Patient, Grasshopper (Or Doghopper?) 

Remember, changing a behaviour takes time. Your dog has probably spent months, if not years, perfecting their jumping game. Be consistent, stay positive, and celebrate the small victories. Eventually, your dog will learn that greetings are best done with paws firmly on the ground — and everyone, including Aunt Sally, will thank you.